The one with the online shopping


I’m trying to convince myself that I’m not an online shopper.

But truth is I’m never comfortable with the online shopping thing. Sure I’ve done it.

Locally we have Trademe, which is like eBay buy for New Zealanders.

I’ve brought from Amazon in the UK, a phone case for the daughter, that was about NZ$14.00.

I brought some vinyl music from http://www.wowhd.co.nz The Elbow Definitive Vinyl, a couple of hundred NZ$, nights of angst!

Nike-Free-Run-3-01Recently I brought shoes from http://www.shoes4u.co.nz This was a real interesting experience and driven by the fact that my current  excercise (walking) shoes have after just under 200kms are showing wear and tear, and if nothing else is important it’s looking good and having the good shoes on the feet.

I prefer Nike Free. I’ve been a big fan of them since forever. Having seen some in a sale recently at NZ$150 I was kind of tempted, they are around that price too in the Nike Outlet place.  So I had a google, and found two sites, and chose the Shoes4U one, for the simple reason that they took a credit card transaction, and not a paypal thing.

So I ordered a pair, all up in US$ 77.95 including the shipping. That was Thursday 31st January. Get home Monday and there is a card from the couriers saying go pick up a package. Which we thought was some university documents, because clearly something from Hong Kong isn’t going to get to Auckland in 4 days?

And the credit card hadn’t been debited yet.

Wrong. There they were. Delivered. The Credit card got debited that day, But that’s the first time the things have arrived before the card has been charged.

The Shoes4u.co.nz website is maddeningly difficult to navigate to log-on, check the shipment, give feedback and all that but they have a benchmark in service.

So here I sit a bit of this and a bit of that. I feel like I scored a real bargain, shoes for under NZ$100 saving me at least $50 in the colour I want to, not the run-out colours maybe in your style or not.

I also feel that I’ve let the local shops down too, it doesn’t feel right that you can the same shoes freighted in, and even if you add the GST part they work out NZ$35 dollars cheaper than on sale. They retail normally around $190-$200.

I’m all for buy local where I can, and where it makes sense.  I understand how the local retailers find the online shopping opportunities a real threat to them.

As it turns out I’m a bit of an online shopper and my purchases from overseas appear to be increasing, for someone that like to swap money for immediate possession of goods the online purchase always provides days of fret and worry. And one day I’ll get an import bill of some kind where they ping me for tax or something, Inevitable really. I’ve no doubt that you could get totally carried away and spend heaps of money buying all sorts of things, but I’d steer clear of laptops and tablets for now, because I’m not prepared to gamble money on things that may break, as opposed to shoes, for instance. And my purchases might never get above the $100, because like gambling that might be all I’m prepared to lose in one transaction.

Growing up – the one with the Ball Gown


The Last School Ball and the Cocktail dress.

It’s the last of year of regular school for the daughter.

This is the one where she’s given up competitive sport to concentrate on. The one that she feels will define her.Anyway, being the last year, it seems that there is going to be a school ball, as there is every year it seems. But this one is special. Not like the last one where a cocktail dress was sufficient this one is different.

And I don’t know why it’s special or what significance it has, since they didn’t have school balls when I were a lad.

So we’re über organised (daughter that is) she’s diligently been on line to the ASOS shop and picked out a little number that appears to her. It’s a tulle skirt and a sparkly bodice (says the man with the fashion sense to call Pink ‘Salmon’ when he wears it). It works out at about $500, depending on the exchange rate of the day. She’s brought from ASOS in the past and they seem to be all fine nad dandy. And I don’t have a problem if that’s what she wants and it brings peace and tranquility to the house.

MrsPdubyah on the other hand is a bit more practical. “Can’t just buy off the peg. on line”, she says “have one made!” I frowned.

This is a great idea, as explained by MrsPdubyah to daughter “who knows what it looks like really, or how it’s made, or indeed if it needs to be adjusted and nipped and tucked” I nodded wisely.

Secretly though this is about the opportunity for a bit of Mother-Daughter time and a visit to the material shops to check out the spangle materials and tulle. Daughter is quite excited by the idea of this kind of shopping, and has already started to plan her “Girls Shopping Trip” even if it is only with her mother.

Me? I’m standing by with smiles and support and a pained look on standby when the bill comes in.

Update : Well I got that wrong, it’s New York Dresses and not ASOS. Well I tried to listen.

So is $500 acceptable? Am I being reasonable?