Just like you, but different
A feminist friend of mine constantly bangs on about how outraged she is about almost everything.
You can’t pick anything she says as repeat it back to her since this then is just an attack.
Yet she is by her own admission insecure and unsure about many things.
Everything “sexualises” or “denigrates” women.
I’d stop caring but as a friend she’s ok, I just wouldn’t go to her for advice